| Yellow Cab : A derogatory term used by foreigners (primarily) to describe a Japanese woman who will easily have sex with someone she has just met. |
“She’s like a Yellow Cab. Cheap and anyone can have a ride.”
There is a prevailing notion amongst many foreigners who reside in Japan and abroad that Japanese women are particularly easy and more so than women in other countries, especially the western homelands from which most of us are from. The idea is based on the belief that Japanese women will have sex with any foreigner that buys them a “long island iced tea”. This all comes from the testimonies of many an ex-patriot who apparently did not fare so well with the opposite sex at home, yet who have managed to become quite “popular” while living in Japan.s
He is inevitably so desired by Japanese women that nothing can touch him, nobody can possibly resist his foreign charms….he is a living, breathing Don Juan, so capable of getting “J-girls” naked that his ego has swelled to a very uncomfortable size indeed.
Despite all this having been said, I put forth the idea that the majority of Japanese women couldn’t give two old rat shits about foreign men and that in fact, by and large most “gaijin” are fishing in (what most Japanese men would consider to be) the “second-hand, burnt out, used up, C grade, over the hill, nobody sees them wall flowers” pond. It is a smelly pond indeed.
Like everything else, this is not an absolute rule and sometimes a foreign man can be seen with a genuinely attractive and interesting Japanese woman. This however, is more rare than the “Gaijin” community would like us to think.
I want to identify below some of the reasons why this fallacy exists.
- Yellow fever causes blindness.
Really. If someone is on the war path in the sense that he wants to be with Asian women all the time and constantly needs someone new in his bed, it’s very likely that he just has no sense of who is actually pretty, who is Cute, who is OK, and who is the girl who fell and hit all the damn branches whilst plummeting from the ugly tree. Essentially, if she’s not fat, she’s OK in a lot of “gaijin” books. In fact, sometimes fat is considered a bonus. - This is Japan.
There are rules for everything. If you want Computer parts you go to Akihabara. If you want to shop and your 15 you go to Harajuku, 30 and you go to Ginza. Want busy streets and Karaoke you go to Shibuya but if you want sheik and posh bars you visit Ebisu. So, the areas in which women interested in foreign men can go are clearly marked. Roppongi: Heartland, The Hub, Fridays, International Parties etc. The girls that Gaijin men are meeting at these places are there because at the least, they have some interest in foreign culture and this often translates to interest in foreign men, or, can translate to that after several cocktails. The point to remember here is, for every 1 girl who is there and is interested, there are 10 that are not. 10 that hate hamburgers and English and loud foreign men who can’t speak a lick of Japanese despite having lived in the country for 3 years. Point: It’s a special population, not the norm. - English Conversation schools: A wash with Hormones.
Not only does number 2 sort of apply here in terms of special populations, but in addition to that, the English conversation schools or Eikaiwa, are little social training centers for otherwise socially inept individuals. Sitting for 6-8 hours a day and having one on one conversations with clients, most of whom are female, is a very effective way to build confidence in someone who back home got nervous asking for cream with his coffee. This situation coupled with the people being there already having a clearly defined interest in foreign whatever equals easy pickings….often enough. - Catholic guilt, this is not.
Not everyone has a moral compass based on Judeo-Christian ideas. Different groups of people have different concepts on what sex is for. So yes, in Japan there seems to be a more relaxed view regarding extra marital affairs and engaging in sex just because it feels good. When a Japanese woman told my friend that she has sex with other men that she doesn’t plan to date seriously because it “feels good” he then began referring to her as a “whore”. This is a very prevalent stream of thought amongst Gaijin men who themselves are running around sleeping with loads of women that they don’t care about. They are engaging in behavior that is a mirror image of the behavior they are condemning in the women they are with but for these men, it’s much worse. The women honestly don’t see anything wrong with what they’re doing and why should they? The dumb bastard foreign male they picked up outside Yokosuka is just something to numb the pain of her boring life or perhaps a relatively uncomplicated way for her to get over a bad break up. Who knows? Their morality comes from the murky abyss that is Japanese common sense and ethical values where, as the man has grown up with a clear sense that promiscuity is WRONG. WRONG. Yet he is engaging in said behavior on a massive scale. Who is actually the WHORE in this situation? The woman living by the values she knows and accepts or the man turning his back on the ones he knows?
What I put forth in conclusion here is that if you’re mystified, terrified or just disappointed or even disgusted by how “easy and slutty” all the “J-girls” you know are, then perhaps you should take a few moments of critical thinking time and take stock of yourself. It’s likely that YOU are the faulty, rotten component in the equation much more so than any of the women you have spent time with.
For you Western readers…
“But surely Adam cannot be excused; Her fault though great, yet he was most to blame; What weakness offered, strength might have refused, Being lord of all, the greater was the shame.” -Lanyer, Aemilia
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Gaijinass 
This was a great read. I agree with alot of what you said with the exception of point number one (“Yellow fever causes blindness”)
That’s only a half truth. Horniness causes blindness. That kind of lifestyle isn’t limited to gaijin, it happens all over the world. Gaijin are just like any other guy except we happen to be in Japan.
I some way’s I agree with you here.
But….I really think that “yellow fever” is a fetish. Fetishes jut by their nature are a more acute form of horniness. Now what happens to a bad habit or a fetish if you constantly feed it? One of two things. 1. It goes away because you just burn out or 2. It grows and grows. It is in my opinion not unlike someone using drugs. I know the analogy might be a bit off but there are parallels. The addiction or fetish grows and becomes all consuming. I realize that men addicted to sex can be found in many places but based on my observations here, considering all the contributing factors, its just much more out of control and the standards can drop much lower.
Right on. And add to that the prevalence (sic: Majority) of humans are complete idiots.
Oh, too, that many “Japanese women” are not Japanese. But the dumbasss Gaijin don’t always know the diff.
As a script -flip, Care to touch on the women who always go for the “coco-jin”? Always seem to be a shit-ton of those unlucky ditz’s.
Expatriate is so spelt. Ex-patriot is wrong. Get an English dictionary.
It is called the Shimizu ザー清水 in Japanese. Most frrgieneos don’t know about it but all Japanese do.I am going to share the secret with you.As you know, it is very difficult to gain entry into Japan’s top university, Tokyo University. So hard in fact that many people study several years at expensive cram schools after high school to pass the entrance exam. There have been well known instances of students ending their lives after several failed attempts at entry. Apparently back in the 60 s the last question on the last page on the last day of testing contained a question that stumped many a Japanese genius. The question was; how many liars are in a room when both people are being kind to each other ? Was this a trick question? A test of ethics? Is zero a number? Honne and tatemae relevant? These questions and many others went through the head of the now famous 19 year old Shimuzu san as he sat in the hot examination room back in the late summer of 1967. Japanese children to this day are taught to do the Shimuzu so as to not forget that young student named Shimizu and his failure to answer that question correctly and how he went on to end his life. Sad and alone. The next time you are asked to pose for a camera please do not forget young Mr. Shimizu. Everyone knows zero isn’t a number.
WTF?
Chic, a French loanword in English, is also spelt so and it means fashionably elegant. Sheik is an Arab ruler or head of a tribe. You really need an English dictionary.
I’ve never been to Japan and have no intention of going there.
Awash is so spelt and is one word.
Extra-marital or extramarital is either hyphenated or spelt as one word. Extra adjectivally is a prefix and should be either joined by a hyphen or, more commonly in American English, written as a single word.
Pauly what do I need a dictionary for when I have you? I will mail you when I need something proof read. In the meantime, perhaps a hobby?
There are more spelling, punctuation, and grammatical errors, but I haven’t the time to correct them all. Get an English dictionary and refer to it. Then you will be free of error. I hate to think what you people are teaching the Japanese as correct English when you can’t even write it correctly yourselves.
It s funny,
exatly same words:
“When a Japanese woman told my friend that she has sex with other men that she does not plan to date seriously because it “feels good”-
me:
-but , if you love me,why you make love with him ? –
she:
-it s good for my body-
funny ins ‘t?
sometime i think that s my mind is too much close, and so in try to open it,
but when you try to open your mind , it s painfull for your heart, and stomach go off.
This was a great read, i cant believe I’ve never read this before. I Had to cover my own mouth to prevent from yelling “UMMM.. HELLO??? THANK YOU.” And high-fiving everyone in my general vicinity.
On the scary flip side of this are gaijin women who come to Japan, perfectly normal, pretty, women, who develop low-self esteem, warped body imgae and/or functional alcoholism . Write an article about all the disturbed gaijin women you know, I’d read that.
I think….modestly….the American women, and I mention them specifically because that is the “Western/gaijin” female type I know first hand, are not as squared away and tough as nails as the media in both the USA and Japan like to portray them as.
There is this fallacy that American women are too tough to die and they are strong and blah blah blah. Women are women….it’s a very sexist remark but I think MOST women, where ever, have some sort of issue regarding how they look. Coming to a country that’s definition of “Thin and healthy” is what we consider to be a very gangely 14 year old to fucking emaciated, does not help.
Another factor I think is semi isolation. Many of the gaijin women I know here do not have any honest to goodness close relationships here.
The “friends” they do have are more out of necessity and convenience rather than genuine friendship. This results in a lot of them wallowing, alone in their mind filled with the fears and self doubt everyone has but with no real positive feedback telling them to ignore that.
Obviously, this can be drastically the opposite for men here whom in their home country feel physically small, weak or normal to unpopular, here can become quiet a catch. This also plays tricks on their female counter parts who see these sort of mediocre to crummy guys doing pretty well for themselves and subconsciously even more doubts begin to pop up because no analysis has been done to explain what they are seeing. Again this goes away pretty quickly for the foreign man marrying here as he is regarded by most as second in command behind his JAPANESE WIFE. Her being Japanese trumps his being the financial head of the house hold and can, generate some tension and oddly, some of the same feelings you are describing only manly man man versions of those.
Finally, something that can happen to both foreign men and women here is arriving with a head full of wondrous expectations about what Japan has in store for them and finding out that shit just doesn’t work how they thought it would. I think this is a sort of the secret to my relative success here. I had no plans to live here originally, had no fucking clue what Japan was about and thus was a blank slate to be impressed by the Japan reality, not the fiction I constructed in my own mind.
Oh and…the alcoholism is not just women, it’s this country. Japan deals with stress with SEX and ALCOHOL and SUICIDE…I think you know this. I heard it said in the Marines: In Japan you either become a Jesus freak, an alcoholic or a workout fanatic…. r some functionally obsessive hybrid of any two of those.
And you said “functional Alcoholic” what the hell are you whining about? I am fairly certain literally EVERYONE I work with is a functional alcoholic.
I would like to see any foreign woman in Japan try and deny anything you just said. And then I would like to make fun of that foreign woman to make myself feel better while crying.
so….is that a thumbs up or….not?
That’s an “I agree”
“She’s like a Yellow Cab. Cheap and anyone can have a ride.”
Not quite. The correct phrase is “She’s like a yellow cab – anyone can take her home.” NYC taxis are anything but cheap. You want cheap, you use the subway.
This phrase was popularized by a book published in 1991 by a Japanese female author living in NYC at that time. It is a play on the fact that all cabs in NYC are yellow. The phrase really only makes sense in that context since most Japanese and gaijin wouldn’t otherwise understand it unless they were aware of this. (How many yellow taxis do you see in anywhere in Japan, London, Paris, etc., etc.? Exactly.) Otherwise, is sounds a bit racist.
Her book has supposedly been discredited, though I’m not sure why as the phenomenon she describing was quite prevalent in NYC and in the other U.S. tourist destinations favored by Japanese during those years (LA, SF, Hawaii).
I see yellow cabs in Tokyo on a regular basis. I take yellow cabs home in Tokyo on a regular basis – uh oh, I’m being rambunctious. Really, lots of taxis of the yellow hue here. Blue, black, white and green as well. It’s so enchanting.
Anyway, Perhaps I should have provided more context when I wrote this. This was not put together taking into consideration the sexual habits of Japanese tourists abroad but rather things going on here in this city. I had never heard this term before a Japanese woman asked me what I thought about it, hence my “Not quite” right recounting of it.
I found it pretty disgusting and given the perspective I had at the time and still maintain within these boundaries here, it is in fact a fallacy. In addition, although I haven’t uh done all the social research to “discredited” such a sound and well developed thesis, I would be willing to bet that for every Japanese tourist that gets their rocks off with some disposable local in wherever, there are 10 others that just went back to the hotel, had some shooters before fucking up with the pay per view and going to sleep.
“She’s like a Yellow Cab. Cheap and anyone can have a ride.”
Not quite. The correct phrase is “She’s like a yellow cab – anyone can take her home.”
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Are for real or just being a dickhead wiki searching know it all?…you knew that off the top of your head?….yeah right.
I’m from Hawaii and heard many Japanese women speak ill of their fellow Nihonjin visiting Hawaii and depending on who said it it was multiple variations of what you both said.
I remember it as
“Oh she’s easy…like a yellow taxi…anyone can ride her”
Chris,
My first summer in Japan was before you were born. My first trip to Hawaii was probably before your parents were out of HS. I lived in NYC in the early ’90s and was in the thick of the Japanese ex-pat community where the book, which is what gave currency to the phrase, was still being discussed, and Nell’s was still a marginally popular club with Japanese tourists.
A little advice for your blog – spelling, grammar and punctuation do count.
It seems unfair that all western girls deserve sympathy while all foreign guys can be called mediocre or crummy and it’s taken as a given.
Many foreign guys do go to Japan and find a new lease of life and build up their self confidence from nothing. Why is this a bad thing? Surely they’ve rewritten the script for themselves and found some kind of happiness, or at least are finally having some fun.
The above article is warped, it contains elements of truth but is not the whole picture. After all what is the difference between a cool foreign guy and a crummy one? A six pack? A nice car? Being a jock?
Why isn’t there any talk of girls not getting laid when they were back home? Because young girls don’t usually have a problem getting laid but they do have a shelf life. And nerds do sometimes grow up to become rich and then have their pick of the girls.
The point I’m trying to make is not all foreign guys who have yellow fever are bad or crummy. And not all western girls have a god given right to be considered attractive, some of them are simply fat, ugly and unattractive.
Sure,I agree. This article isn’t about guys with yellow fever or “Western”Girls and their hangups though. It’s about this persistent stereotype that Japanese women, at least some hefty portion of them anyway, are”Yellow Cabs”. That’s what it’s about. Also about the Western girls….It’s high comedy and brutal irony with them. They generally like to think that the reason Western guys in Japan are not picking them up is due to some “Yellow Fever” or an obsession with a little obedient Japanese fetish robot or something. Both are largely incorrect. But taking it down to basics….it’s simple. So over here is a average Japanese girl in a bar. 160 cmts tall. Drinking with her friends. Laughing about something. Dressed pretty well, the outfit is flattering. Hair, makeup, all cute in an average way. Built on the slim side. Over at the other end of the bar is a Western girl: 170cmt tall. Drinking with a friend. Laughing about something. Dressed in old jeans and a sweatshirt. Clearly 10 kilos over weight. Hair up in a pony tail, no make up. Hmmm…as a man…BASICALLY…yeah, the Japanese girl is way ahead. Without any sort of Asian fetish etc, it’s just common sense. Sorry Western ladies, Tokyo is a big city full of women that are all competing with one another. If you want to play the game you have to compete as well. That’s all I’m saying.
This is wrong. You tell your Japanese date hot when you think she’s just average. And what’s wrong with wearing jeans and no makeup? Do you want your date to always dress up in a dress or skirt? DO YOU?! She’ll one day turn up into a big princess who always wears skirts and heels, and she’ll refuse to wear pants when you guys are going for a hike!!!
Well no. The main point the article is trying to make is that this image of Japanese woman is due to the faults of the ‘crummy’ foreign guys with yellow fever.
“There is a prevailing notion amongst many foreigners who reside in Japan…”
“It’s likely that YOU are the faulty, rotten component in the equation much more so than any of the women you have spent time with.”
The opening and the closing sentences both referring to foreign guys living in Japan. So the article IS about guys with yellow fever.
Her argument seems to be:
1) foreign guys only get ugly, stupid girls.
2) most J-girls don’t like foreign guys.
3) teaching English builds your confidence (and for this reason is invalid in her eyes)
4) casual sex is no big deal in Japan, unlike the US/UK so while u may see these girls as easy it’s just a cultural misunderstanding.
I’m mean these are just the deluded ravings of a mad woman who is obviously very very bitter about her experiences there. She’s trying to make her self feel better about it all but is deluding herself.
I’ve had some absolutely stunning J-girlfriends and am close friends with many beautiful, intelligent Japanese girls. To say they are
“second-hand, burnt out, used up, C grade, over the hill, nobody sees them wall flowers”
is the kind of insult I’d expect from a child. I knew my girlfriends where nice by the way Japanese men looked at me- pure, unconcealed contempt. I used to love that feeling.
Foreign guys have cache in any country, not just Japan, especially if they come from a ‘cool’ country. Look at French guys in the UK. They only have so say ‘allo’ and the girls are pulling their knickers down.
And what the *uck is wrong with having a job that builds your confidence? Why is this woman filled with such hate?
And I’m a atheist and have my own mind so I don’t feel any shame about playing the field what so ever.
This article is delusional and dishonest. The writer has the kind of hate that can only come from a woman who has been hung out to dry by the men folk while they get busy with Japanese women, who are some of the best women on earth. I can understand why this woman is so afraid of the truth- compared to them she is as nothing.
Very well put. J men hate it gave me some pleasure taking her home and making it.
Me too.
“by and large most “gaijin” are fishing in (what most Japanese men would consider to be) the “second-hand, burnt out, used up, C grade, over the hill, nobody sees them wall flowers” pond… sometimes a foreign man can be seen with a genuinely attractive and interesting Japanese woman. This however, is more rare than the “Gaijin” community would like us to think.”
“by and large” in other words she’s making vague generalizations that are impossible to verify one way or the other.
By and large, western women are less attractive than Japanese woman.
And you also know what all Japanese men think? Wow, how big was your sample population? Or did you just make it up in your rubbish-bin head?
If thinking that foreign men getting nice J-girls is a very rare event makes you feel better about your sorry lot in life, knock yourself out. You’ve obviously spent a lot of time thinking about this topic… a lot of evenings home alone…
“This however, is more rare than the “Gaijin” community would like us to think”
Well that’s just the thing baby, we don’t care what you think, so don’t crap it all over the internet. Take your fat American ass back to K-mart land and die there.
Thanks for the comment Benny. I do pretty well here though, so I think I’ll stay.
first of all, you are forgeigner and you know nothing about the Japan. Japanese women are not interested in foreign men. Only the fake ones who are really ZAINICHI with ugly family history are interested in foreign man. If Japanese woman has a sexy time to foreign man, she must bathe in IZU SHRINE to clean away the bad spirits. You must admit this.
Haha. Never ceases to amaze me.
He is just part of the very insignificant pest known as wapanese / weeaboos / japanophiles that affects the world, so you cannot really expect something god coming from him.
Most people don’t know about japan and don’t pretend to known anything about the subject because they don’t care about that shallow country in first place. You can say that a significant number of people don’t even know a country named japan exists.
And a equally significant number just want that place be nuked again (and i am not talking about only koreans, chinese and other asians). But if that happened i couldn’t continue visiting there on my holidays. They have the greastest “boy meets boy” vacation tours! Japan or bust!
if foreigners don’t care about japan, then it’s REALLY great. stay away from japan. i don’t mind you calling me racist but i HATE GAIJINS. Most of foreigners are barbaric, uneducated, uncivilized and criminals.They are like animals who lose self-control by Japanese standard. Sometimes I wish Japan were located near the center of Pacific center so that we can avoid foreign garbage.Niggers are considered the cancer of the society in most countries. But to me, Asians minus Japanese, Whites, Muslims and Browns are the same garbage. japan should be always one race/people country.
劣等種が日本に来るんじゃねーよ。日本社会を劣化させる劣ったゴミどもが。
Hahahahahahahaha. SCIENCE!
You can go to hell along with your japanese peers.
you POS. I love black men.
Eloquent comments bird my boy. Cheers.
To Japanese shrine poster up top. Had allot of very nice relationships with allot of prominent Japanese women, one friendship lead to her wanting to leave her husband I discontinued it. Consenting adults we’ll say. I never had to unzip my fly my own ever. 😉
Poor Japanese shrine poster. You might wanna consider checking Ashley Madison, see how it grew in income upon introduction to Japan. It grew so bad, Google Japan had to ban it, too much competition with local adultery businesses. Try joining it and see if you won’t find cheating Japanese wives as members seeking international friendship using their husbands’ paychecks. Ugh, this is pathetic!
The main flaw in this article (and there are many and much wishful thinking) is that no where in the article is the influence of entertainment mentioned. Foreign movies and TV have flooded Japan for a long time and many women there have grown up with a romanticized image of American/European men there entire lives and to say that that it hasn’t had a huge impact on them seeing foreign men as extremely attractive is insane.
Everyone person on earth is susceptible to advertising and Japanese women are no different and are often curious about having the experience of being with a western man and are often very attracted to them. In fact I’ve heard Japanese women describe being with a western man as “the ideal”. The only people I’ve heard claim Japanese women don’t like foreign men are Japanese men who are only wishing they weren’t second in line. People need to stop lying to themselves.
Thank you for missing the entire premise of the article. Good comment though.
What is really nonsensical is your retardation, your stupid trauma with that worthless and shallow country/society that is japan. Look, I like men, but that’s just me. I don’t really “get” this whole thing because I like sausage. So what? Does that make me wrong?
No, it does not make you wrong. But, perhaps you are out of the loop on this particular issue. Good luck with the BF or whatever. Cheers for the comment.
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She can post whatever she wants. The reality is much more centered somewhere else. Here’s a keeper though a Japanese couple approach a Lebanese dude on the street. They ask if he would service the wife so they could have a mixed baby……
sir, i applaud this. I stopped telling guys that the Japanese girl they are with is really not it. It is self evident really. Most are happy to delude themselves that they are with a hot chick however……self delusion is rife amongst gaijins with Japanese girlfriend
It’s not just with a gaijin dating Japanese girls in Japan, I think it’s a world wide phenomenon that guys like to think (or what they actually believe is not important. they want people to think that their date is hot?) that they are dating hot women. Every guy wants to think they are dating hot women, but there are non-hot women (sure, sure, all women are beautiful, no. all humans are beautiful and wonderful beings to some people, but their concept of being beautiful is different from other people when they say that), and we all, at some point, have to date, don’t we?
“If a guy tells people that his SO is not hot, what would people think of him? A big jerk?”
We don’t judge males or think of males as a failure just because they date non-hot women. So guys, you don’t have to convince us that your date is once in a life time, movie star like hottie. That only makes your date seem significantly less hotter than she actually is.
Sir, I applaud this. I stopped telling guys that the Japanese girl they are with is really not it. It is self evident really. Most are happy to delude themselves that they are with a hot chick however……self delusion is rife amongst gaijins with Japanese girlfriend. I can count on one finger the number of times I’ve seen a foreigner with a hot chick.
Don’t get me wrong, I have seen some gaijin with hot women. But, it usually meant he was either hot or rich himself. The myth that bunk looking dorks can come here and effortlessly pick up 10s is ridiculous.
Me thinks the writer is bitter and twisted at other foreigners on his acclaimed sacred turf.
Me thinks your comment is late and inaccurate.
There is a saying that “opinions are like arseholes – everybody has one”. That is true – but there is no topic on this planet that elicits such a wide and varied range of such strongly held (and of course absolutely correct) views as this one – the topic of gaijin guys with Japanese chicks!
In my view Japanese women were always easy (past tense because I am not in that game now). I was a self-styled, yellow-fevered PUA who simply had way, WAY more success with Japanese women than any other nationality.
Oh yes, I picked up the ugly ones. But have you ever considered that we all have different tastes in women? I picked them up because I liked them (adored them, more like). I had my fare share of hotties too, but I find beauty of a kind in so many types of women. Quite simply, looks were only one of my criteria. I just adored Japanese women and their “ways”. Even the picking up was wonderful (not just the ensuing action), because of their endlessly fascinating Japanese ways! And funny too. The army of cock-blockers were always out to stop me – the jealous Japanese guys, the other competing gaijins, the affronted usurped western girls, the moralizing Yanks, the nervous guys with inferiority complexes who slavishly studied Japanese language for decades to get half a chance, the Japanophile experts who thought that what I did wasn’t even feasible, because of their particular expert theory on Japanese culture and women, and the plain racists.
Anyway, they’re all here! They all come out of the woodwork whenever somebody talks about this subject – out to take the high expert or moral ground, out to shame the Japanophile, out to bend the world around to their point of view! I am just a guy whose game seems well attuned to the Japanese female psyche. I am not going to claim any higher understanding of this – but the whole Japanese thing worked for me.
Thank you, all of you – all you Yuki’s, Junko’s, Chihiro’s, Satomi’s, Naomi and Aki’s. All you girls who used screen names of “Sakura” (thank you for your on-line contributions!). Thank you, you traveling scholars, you so-so Japanese girls and you wild girls rebelling against your Japaneseness! All so fine! Thank you!
Well said Mr Richards! You made me laugh especially when you spoke of the myriad folks that had studied to get some action. 2 months ago now, I had the hottest Japanese girl eating out of my palm. We were getting drunk, suggestion about what she’d like me to do was floated as she, in that Japanese sort of way yelled ‘hentai’ (whilst she could hardly bend without exposing everything in the silly short mini skirt she had on) until a Japanese guy came over, asked if I minded if he joined us and completely rode roughshod over the thing aided and abetted by the pimpled inferioty complex guys that are labouring over Japanese textbook in order to get some. He spoke Japanese an eventually lured the girl away, she cam back repeatedly and then guy ran after her until I got fed up and left. The alternative was to lamp the guy but too old for that sort of thing now 🙂
The other thing is the ugly aspect. I found I can abide ugly Japanese. I struggle to understand why though!
Thank you for making me chuckle! As an Italian man that has lived in Japan for 30 years told me, only a madman will marry a Japanese. I agree but as girlfriend and fuck buddies? Hell yeah!
I married Japanese; twice.
Plans for a third?……..I have resisted all effort to get me to bow to marriage. Why? Oddly enough, I felt that the good time I was having will cease the moment we get married.
I found communication was poor and well, how might we reach an argument during a tiff if her communication skill is to react in rage.
My last girlfriend was wonder. Pretty, gentle and well, very nice in all ways. On the only occasion we had an argument mostly instigated by me, I was shocked when she slapped the door, nearly taking it out of its hinges and stomped up and down. I was really shocked and could not believe her reaction……The sheer malevolent act? i slowly made my way out of that union as I had seen beneath the veil 🙂
I am presently working on #2 and I deeply hope I don’t destroy it. Because it’s good.
good luck!
“Satomi” Yeah, this in my experience, just the name and I know my experience is subjective, but in my experience Satomi = loves cock. Just sayin’…
There’s nothing wrong with Japanese women who are attracted to and Perdue foreign men just like there’s nothing wrong with foreign me. Who persue Japanese women, or any other kind of women. People like what they like and to judge them for it in either case is something only a loser would do.
My wife is Japanese, although I haven’t been to Japan yet. I didn’t marry her because she’s Japanese, yet people assume I have yellow fever or that she has a fetish for black men. To always bring other other people’s race or reasons for dating is a sign of insecurity.
Excuse the typos, typing from my iPhone.
Good points.
A totally different take:) Men (and women) around the world try to get laid the “same night” everywhere around the world. And, there are plenty of men and women who “enjoy” this lifestyle. “Yellow Cab” was created by young Japanese men at the time because they were jealous of foreigners getting their Japanese women. “Yellow Cab” became a huge sensation (on TV in media everywhere) and derogatory term that was associated with Japanese women that hung around with western men, it worked! The “normal” night of going to a bar/club picking up a girl and having sex in the 80’s early 90’s started to wane because the j-girls were afraid of being seen as or being called a “Yellow Cab”. Let me tell ya, the percentage of Japanese men (and women) doing this exact same thing is MUCH higher but those girls are not called “Yellow Cabs”… its just normal. The whole “Yellow Cab” thing was a ploy by the Japanese guys to make Japanese women who hang out with western men look bad, that’s all.
Luckily this “Yellow Cab” crap has finally lost some of its momentum and Japanese women are once again considering western men. However, with the increase in foreigners in Japan and the Japanese breaking out of their shell quite a bit in the last 20 years, you better be decent looking and have something going for you to find a nice Japanese woman.
Yellow cabs: you can ride them at a whistle. Japanese women do not get wooed. They are the ones who “ask for partnership” (kokuhaku) that’s why good looking guys easily get taken and you’ll find a lot of them walking with ugly aggressive jealous Japanese women who fight any woman who poses as a threat even if it was their boyfriend who tried to make a hit. Japanese women get laid without marriage. They have no morals for sex. So when they go to other countries and get asked for sex on the first meeting, that becomes their first experience being asked and by someone they consider better looking than those Japanese guys they woo. Well, finally, it’s their great day of feeling desired, why forego? Yeah, they’re super-easy. Gaijins who want to uplift them are just saving their faces, so their fellows will think they got someone respectable. Japanese guys who are content with just cohabitation with Japanese women are increasing and so are single mothers.
How is anything you just said different than Chinese girls, or Mexican girls, or White girls from (name a state)? Because I easily hooked up with several from each of those categories, all on first dates. Your premise is non-existent. The Japanese woman people who push your envelope have encountered are not a majority. They just aren’t. They’re a fringe. I’m not complaining about this fringe, I have basked in it’s yellow glow for long and have drank often from it’s cup. That having been said, the broad sweeping statement that Japanese girls are easy, it’s just a convenient stereotype akin to Jews are cheap and Lesbians secretly crave cock.
Oh wait….
Then that makes those girls just as easy. You’re entitled to your own opinion. I speak from my own experience and cultural background. The word easy is based on the premise that women should not hook up so fast and hold on until the guy has invested enough to deserve it. The premise exists.
It exists in your mind, perhaps the minds of some others who like the stereotype. But it’s by no means a law of nature and can be easily disproved over and over. Which essentially makes it meaningless. You make statements which have no real credibility: “They have no morals about sex.” Except for the ones who clearly DO have morals about sex. The whole concept is a non-sequitur.
Oh my god! So it must be true! When a bitter Japanese guy condemns their female counterpart this much, the truth bell should be rung. I never knew. I mean, it’s just a one guy’s opinion, but as Takita said, if you have many many bolts and nuts, you simply can’t test all of them just to check, and it’s a totally different situation because I didn’t hear from any other Japanese guy about this issue and I can’t even trust this Takita person from the internet and I can’t even be sure Takita is speaking his truth or making this up or I can’t even be sure Takita is even a Japanese guy, but.
Thank you for your raged opinion, Takita. I learned it from my experience that angry people can hardly disguise their feelings.
It’s only in your mind that it doesn’t exist. Shinto teaches nothing about holding on from sex. What moral standard do they follow? What principle, can you spill it? It’s the HOLDING ON that makes a woman NOT easy. Without those moral teachings, a woman can just say NIKE, just do it to me. Hey, I’m not complaining man, this is just proving a point. What law of nature are you talking about? In nature, it is the male that initiates the courtship. That goes opposite ways with Japanese women. They approach, and what has a guy have to say, NO? of course not and why waste a minute? Let’s get on to it. Oops, maybe in your case, it was different. What, did you have a hard chase?
You have proved nothing. Nike? You’re arguement, if that’s what it’s supposed to be, is incoherent. Based on what you’ve said, all the Christian black women across America should be happily married and having responsible and long lasting relationships with their children, husbands and happy families. Well, that isn’t the case, at all. 85% of Black Americans claim to be religious and 72% of black kids are raised in single parent homes. Having some religious organization spout ideals about chastity doesn’t prevent jack shit. Everything you’ve proposed is simply your misogynistic and racist baggage connected with the female Japanese population. It’s laughable and embarrassing. Of course, there are Japanese women who just want to have sex for the sake of sex, and there are Koreans who do too, and Thais, and Germans, and Italians, and Russians…need I go on?
Because I can.
Recent statistics: 45% of Japanese women 19-25 not only aren’t having sex, they simply have no interest in it. This means the other 55% are crazed nympho-maniacs prowling through the night? Obviously the answer is no. You’ve had some run ins with a small subset of a population and have projected your issues, bias and anecdotes across an entire population.
55% nymphomaniac! Dude, that means majority of them in that age bracket are nymphomaniacs. You’re just blowing up your own stand!
OK, you mean to say Japanese women are not easy; they just happen to be nymphomaniacs. If that makes you happy, I’ll shake your hand on that.
You’ve never heard of quality control by sampling. FYI, if you have ten million pairs of nuts and bolt and you wanna check if they fit right, YOU DON’T HAVE TO SCREW ALL TEN MILLION!!! Depending on the reliability standard, you get just a number of samples to screw and test. That determines the fate of the entire batch, whether they get approved or rejected. I don’t need to do all Jwomen, it’s enough that the handful I did, 100% of them, who all have decent jobs, proved NOT worth taking seriously. 100%!!!!
So, what if you screwed women around the world? What, are you vying for Mr. International Sex Maniac? We’re not impressed! The issue is whether Jwomen are yellow cabs or not. You don’t prove your apples are fresh by showing you can eat many oranges and bananas! (Talk about relevancy, ugh!) You’re just green because Jwomen suitors approach me while you’re here desperately trying to prove they’re hard to get. You just creep them off man, you scare them away.
As for statistics, have you never considered your own personal stats? You say you had MANY encounters with LOOSE Jwomen and 2 you married. Granting the 2 made you chase, that still makes loose the majority.
The 19-25 who are not having sex, they must have gotten tired of it during junior high and high school, when they start experimenting. They’re just resting.
So, women who have sex are not worth taking seriously? Haha…Dude, YOU are the only person involved in this who isn’t worth taking seriously.
Don’t keep swaying away from the issue. Remember: It’s whether Jwomen are rightfully called yellow cabs or not, whether they easily do it or not. Don’t bring family issues here, that’s eons of light years away different topic. You’re the one who’s incoherent here. It doesn’t effect me anyway, I only date black guys now.
Uh, OK. Black guys? That’s cool. (?????)
Sorry you lost me with that.
“The yellow cab fallacy” THAT is non-sequitur, Where are the valid premises for the word fallacy? How did you get that word non-sequitur? People have been throwing that on you. I can see from your arguments.
Oh, cool, is that how you play? CHEAT!
Folks, this GaijinAss tampers visitors’ posts. I DIDN’T write the “It doesn’t effect me anyway, I only date black guys now. ” He wrote that.. You can tell by the grammatical error. GaijinAss, EFFECT is not the correct word, dullhead, it’s AFFECT, like the affect semen has in my mouth; a nice one. How can you convince your readers that you have sex with decent people of different languages when YOUR ENGLISH LANGUAGE SUCKS! The only way you’re getting along with your wife is by MIScommunication. I’d pay to watch you use the toilet. FYI.
Now, I’m sure the few posts that commend this blog are also yours. Does that make you happy fooling yourself? You can’t force people to think a fact is false when they see for themselves that it’s true.
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I’ve noticed quite a bit that the hottest Japanese girls stick to Japanese guys. Only average to ugly ones go for white guys. The perception is that hot Japanese girls go for geeky white guys, but it’s only perception.