Pick up Girls using the CARVER Matrix 2
“Don’t focus too much on getting with her, just focus on getting to THE NEXT STEP.” David DeAngelo
In the first post in this series we applied the CARVER matrix on a strategic level to determine the area you should be operating in if access to the inner female sanctum is something high on your “to-do-list”. When you get serious about PUA, or anything else that really shouldn’t be something anyone “gets serious” about, then you can apply the same principles utilized by the US military and Special forces in their planning procedures.
It is important to first look at things Strategically. Once you have a concept and the broad strokes so to speak, then you break things down tactically. Although this warrants and really deserves its own independent post we haven’t that sort of time because hey, there is porno to watch and gossip to read so to broadly outline the shift from Strategic to tactical look at the following examples. Pretty please….
- Strategically you think of a broad concept/ Tactically you focus on the day-to-day operations.
- Strategically you consider the general direction/ Tactically you consider what vehicle you will use.
- Strategically you wonder how things get connected/ Tactically you organize exactly what needs to be connected.
A very broad yet simple way to say this is that “Strategy looks at the what and why. Tactics look at the how.” The CARVER Matrix can be used when making decisions involving both or involving one but not the other.
So, back to our theoretical mission ”Panty Droppage” and its designation ”Gamma-2-0-Sierra-Nevada” or colloquially “Get 20-something year old Nooky” we have established our location. Let us assume, just to speed things up that you have run various venues through the CARVER Matrix and have decided to converge upon “A971″, a fairly hip yet dully crowded business eatery/bar. You have chosen this bar based on criteria that you defined to fit yourself considering on the type of women you will be targeting: 20 something year old office workers, yes the infamous “OL” (or money grubbers, don’t worry this mission is about subterfuge not your bank balance.)
Appropriately, you have put on a suit and tie. Nothing too dressy but enough to give you an ambiguous look. You could be a finance guy, a teacher or a drug dealer. You could work for the embassy or you could live with a host family. You could be homeless. You could live at an internet cafe. There is no way to tell. The point is that you have worn the proper camouflage. Remember- you do not wear desert cammies in the Jungle.
You have further employed the use of Model based decision-making in order to determine the type of girl. Strategically, you want someone relaxed with possibly very flexible moral boundaries. Tall would be good but not “tranny” tall and the office lady or OL vibe is really doing it for you. Another prerequisite is that she be drinking alcohol with a pace often reserved for those dealing with a death in the family, yet not with the all-consuming passion that wraps itself around hard-core, genuine drunks. You would like the first thing she drinks at your place in the morning to be a cup of coffee, not a left over luke-warm beer or the half-liter of Stoli she puked up the night before.
Just take our word for it on this one….just take our word.
After getting into the “vibe” and having a couple of gin tonics you spot the one. She’s standing sort-of toward the rear of the bar that is situated in the center of the first floor, the blue glow emanating from the bar flattering, making her facial features that much soft and ultra-feminine. She is with one friend which works well because you, being prepared and motivated, have brought a trusty wing-man along to help facilitate mission accomplishment.
The approach is simple, straight forward. Move in quickly, do not hesitate and open. You have received one casual look from her when she came in and no form of clear disgust seemed apparent. Once you’re within speaking range, this is when you move to the tactical application of the CARVER model.
Your potential opening lines have been listed as follows:
- What’s your name? (eye contact, slight smile)
- Do you want to come to my home with me? (totally serious, sexy eyes)
- Sorry I’m late! (said in Japanese “Osokute Gomenne!” playful and smiling)
- Cheers! (glass held high “Konpai!”)
- God, you have a nice body baby. (looking her up and down, licking the lips….yours not hers…yet)
We are aware that these are not the only “lines” available to you however, for the sake of this post please, follow the script. Now, let’s run these slick play-boy pros through the ever efficient and de-humanizing CARVER model.
|Your opening line||C||A||R||V||E||R||TOTAL|
And the winner is….OSOKUTE GOMENE! Sorry I’m Late! with 46 points this line narrowly has passed Whats your name? and Cheers!
The rational is as follows: For overall Criticality this line is rather reserved but decent enough. You have entered the targets sphere of consciousness if you weren’t there already. If delivered properly with the right combination of humor and confidence you have shown them that you are funny, fun, have Japanese language ability and you have left things slightly ambiguous which is very good. While the two “tangos” are giggling about your silly yet effective opening line you can then follow it with Cheers! and then Whats your name?
The “secret” to this line scoring high points is its moderate success in every computational component of the Matrix. Line #2 Do you want to come home with me? scores a perfect ten in Criticality making it Stupendous (yes, Stupendous) because IF this tactic is effective you will be in a taxi in 10 minutes and hopefully engaged in hot perfection love-making within the hour. However Opener #2 does not receive a high score because of very low totals in Accessibility, Vulnerability and Recognizability. It would likely be difficult to access the right combination of insanely good looks, brutal suavity and diabolical amounts of charisma in order to use this tactic. In addition, most women in the bar would not be vulnerable to such a frontal assault and finally, you have never done this before. Never before have you bathed in the sweet sexy glow of mission accomplishment via employment of this tactic. This means the tactic is unfamiliar and strange. Difficult to wield it correctly. Conversely a Cheers! or Sorry I’m Late! is something all of us have said before.
OK. I recommend you read other CARVER posts on the site to further familiarize yourself with the ins and outs of this system which is infinite in its applications and then you can take an entire Saturday afternoon calculating your assault on Japanese women-dom.
While reading this regarding pick up in Japan, if you have never been to Japan and done this please understand there are some cultural differences that apply. Some parts of the script that work well here would result in a horrific “crash and burn” effect in a place like say “Kabul” or “San Francisco”. The actual tactics are flexible and contingent upon your area of operations.